We believe the best weddings are those that represent our clients personalities, tastes, likes and feel. So when working with a client, we always want them to feel comfortable saying NO! I know, it sounds funny right? But here is the deal. We will take your vision and your explanations of your vision and create ideas for you.
But here is the deal, No one is perfect, Your explanation may not be 100% a vendors suggestion may not be 100%, but the fact that it's your wedding is 100%. Which means Say NO if you are not 100% on the suggestion.
As a wedding planner I want every bride (even if they are not working with us) to walk away from their wedding saying "it was everything we wanted"
Here is the deal, If you don't want pipe and drape to cover a wall, just say no, if you don't want a certain flower in your arrangements, just say no. If you don't want a particular food, just say no. It is just that easy and no professional will try to force you into something just because they "think" they know better. A professional may explain why they have recommended something heavily but in the end it is up to YOU!
This also applied to family and friends. Believe it or not we hear more from our clients about how stressed the planning process is because of family more than anything else. "Aunt Jane, says I need to have roses", "Cousin Sara said I have to have the same dress for all my bridesmaids" "my mom says I need flower girls" All great suggestions but if you aren't going to be happy about it on your day then just say NO!
Our dream clients, know what they want, want something that represents them and their relationship and most importantly can speak their mind with what they want. In your first meeting with us you will hear us say, "if we suggest something and you do not like it just tell us. We are married and have already had our day, this is YOUR day!"
So do things differently, do things the same, but do them YOUR way!
Showing posts with label Wedding Planning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wedding Planning. Show all posts
Wednesday, February 8, 2017
Tuesday, April 5, 2016
Get it done - Wedding Planning Tips!
Hey Couples, Yep you too Grooms,
You know that to do list, the one that every wedding planning website tells you, you need to complete. The list can be long and overwhelming. But below we will give you some great tips to getting it DONE!
1. Please do not think that EVERYTHING on those list need to be done. They are meant to be a guide and most times lots of those details will not ever pertain to you. So do not stress out if your list says you have 213 things still to complete on your list.
2. Schedule a time into your week to work on your list or planning. Maybe its every Tuesday night from 7-8 pm. It doesn't have to be a lot of time but keep it consistent. Make time to work on things together, so that you are both on the same page and both involved. Additionally, work on one category at a time. Trust me it will be more fun than you think.
3. Once a month go thru your list and mark off things you KNOW you will not need to do or pertain to you. These may be things like schedule sitter, renew passports or start making favors. No need to keep things on your list, even if they are on your list for these to do as it gets closer, if you aren't planning to do them. Just cross them off and relieve some of the stress.
4. Twice a week don't do any wedding planning. I know sounds funny right? But think about how often you say "I should work on xyz" then you don't. Take 2 days a week that are No Planning Days. Those are strict days off. It will make you more productive and you will enjoy the process more.
5. Recruit your friends. Have a once a month planning party when you can get together with your friends and chat about your plans. Maybe you want to have a program assembling party, or invitation stuffing party. Either way try to get together with your friends for some fun planning. It may even be a night of tasting cupcakes for cake flavors or wine tasting to determine what you want to serve. Just make it fun.
And of course our best advise is to hire a wedding planner to help keep you on track. Not only do they know the tips and tricks but they can help manage your to do list, keep your grounded with things you do not need to do and most importantly make sure you enjoy the process.
You know that to do list, the one that every wedding planning website tells you, you need to complete. The list can be long and overwhelming. But below we will give you some great tips to getting it DONE!
1. Please do not think that EVERYTHING on those list need to be done. They are meant to be a guide and most times lots of those details will not ever pertain to you. So do not stress out if your list says you have 213 things still to complete on your list.
2. Schedule a time into your week to work on your list or planning. Maybe its every Tuesday night from 7-8 pm. It doesn't have to be a lot of time but keep it consistent. Make time to work on things together, so that you are both on the same page and both involved. Additionally, work on one category at a time. Trust me it will be more fun than you think.
3. Once a month go thru your list and mark off things you KNOW you will not need to do or pertain to you. These may be things like schedule sitter, renew passports or start making favors. No need to keep things on your list, even if they are on your list for these to do as it gets closer, if you aren't planning to do them. Just cross them off and relieve some of the stress.
4. Twice a week don't do any wedding planning. I know sounds funny right? But think about how often you say "I should work on xyz" then you don't. Take 2 days a week that are No Planning Days. Those are strict days off. It will make you more productive and you will enjoy the process more.
5. Recruit your friends. Have a once a month planning party when you can get together with your friends and chat about your plans. Maybe you want to have a program assembling party, or invitation stuffing party. Either way try to get together with your friends for some fun planning. It may even be a night of tasting cupcakes for cake flavors or wine tasting to determine what you want to serve. Just make it fun.
And of course our best advise is to hire a wedding planner to help keep you on track. Not only do they know the tips and tricks but they can help manage your to do list, keep your grounded with things you do not need to do and most importantly make sure you enjoy the process.
Schedule a consult today!
Lisa Marie & Team!
Hip, Fun, Sassy & Stylish
Wedding & Event Planning
503-830-7779
And don't forget to follow us on social media.
Monday, December 14, 2015
He Asked, You Said Yes, Now What?
Congratulations! The love of your life asked you to spend the rest of your life with him. The excitement is real, The bling is amazing & the families are excited. But now what do you do? Below are some of our tips to starting the planning process.
1. Make sure you spend a few days together enjoying your special time. This is a moment that will be just for the two of you. Enjoy it, Reveal in it!
2. After you have taken some time begin to tell family and friends but do not allow yourself to get too wrapped up in the excitement and start to make commitments to anyone. Additionally make sure all family and close friends know that you want to tell people so to please NOT post things on social media till you get a chance to. The last thing you want is someone finding out before you get a chance to tell them yourself.
3. Work on a budget (stay tuned for a post next week about some simple steps to starting one). By creating a budget before you start planning will help shape the types of wedding professionals you meet with. You do not want to book a venue or professional that will throw your entire budget out of whack.
4. Consult with a wedding planner (we offer a 1 hour complimentary consultation). Professional Wedding Planners can save you money, time and stress. We do not need to sort thru 20 pages of google results to find the right bakery, photographer or florist for you. We know many professionals that we have worked with and trust that we can recommend. Additionally, many will give you discounts.
5. Enjoy the process. Spend at least 2 nights a week with your fiance where you DO NOT talk about the planning process. Where you just have a date night out. Enjoying your time with each other.
1. Make sure you spend a few days together enjoying your special time. This is a moment that will be just for the two of you. Enjoy it, Reveal in it!
2. After you have taken some time begin to tell family and friends but do not allow yourself to get too wrapped up in the excitement and start to make commitments to anyone. Additionally make sure all family and close friends know that you want to tell people so to please NOT post things on social media till you get a chance to. The last thing you want is someone finding out before you get a chance to tell them yourself.
3. Work on a budget (stay tuned for a post next week about some simple steps to starting one). By creating a budget before you start planning will help shape the types of wedding professionals you meet with. You do not want to book a venue or professional that will throw your entire budget out of whack.
4. Consult with a wedding planner (we offer a 1 hour complimentary consultation). Professional Wedding Planners can save you money, time and stress. We do not need to sort thru 20 pages of google results to find the right bakery, photographer or florist for you. We know many professionals that we have worked with and trust that we can recommend. Additionally, many will give you discounts.
5. Enjoy the process. Spend at least 2 nights a week with your fiance where you DO NOT talk about the planning process. Where you just have a date night out. Enjoying your time with each other.
Happy Wedding Planning
Lisa Marie & Team
Portland Oregon, Wedding Planners
eventsbylisamarie.com
503-830-7779
info@eventsbylisamarie.com
Monday, March 3, 2014
YOU GOT ENGAGED!!!!!
It is so exciting when you get engaged. There are a lot of things that you need to think about, people to meet, and things to do. So why not come to the Charlotte's Weddings and More Open House!
You can meet some top notch wedding professionals who can help guide you thru the process of how to start, where to look and what to do. Plus enter for a chance to win all sorts of discounts!
You can meet some top notch wedding professionals who can help guide you thru the process of how to start, where to look and what to do. Plus enter for a chance to win all sorts of discounts!
Thursday, January 23, 2014
Invitations, RSVP cards and Stamps
Hello wedding planning couples!
We hope that you are having a great time planning your wedding. As you begin to get a bit closer to selecting your invitations for your wedding there are a few things you need to know...
1. The price of stamps will be going up on January 26, 2014. This means you need to make sure you get the right stamps for your invites.
2. Even the price of a postcard stamp is going up.
3. Make sure you are aware of odd shaped invitations and RSVP cards. They are not priced the same.
4. We all LOVE the adorable wedding, heart, and kiss stamps. But, if you buy them before the price increase (or already have them) and intend on using them after January 26th, you will need to add extra postage. Save yourself some money and get some forever stamps!
Here is a breakdown of the cost impact to you:
If you have 150 people you are inviting, this means you are probably going to send out around 80 invitations (some will be couples but some may be singles).
80 invitations at the current rate of .46 is $36.80
80 RSVP cards (if using a postcard) current rate .33 is $26.40
80 Thank You cards at the current rate is $36.80
Total spent on postage is $100.00 (keep in mind this is a basic invitation size/weight and postcard RSVP card)
80 invitations at the new rate of .49 is $39.20
80 RSVP cards (if using a postcard) new rate .34 is $27.20
80 Thank You cards at the new rate is $39.20
Total spent on postage at the new rate beginning on Sunday the 26th is $105.60
Keep in mind this does not include postage for your rehearsal dinner invites or Thank You cards for bridal shower gifts. So, while it may seem like a small amount of money, it will begin to add up. And $10 here and $10 there makes a huge difference.
So you may be asking "what now?" Well head on down to your local store or post office and buy some forever stamps. You pay the current rate and can save some money.
Thanks for reading and we hope you found this helpful.
We hope that you are having a great time planning your wedding. As you begin to get a bit closer to selecting your invitations for your wedding there are a few things you need to know...
1. The price of stamps will be going up on January 26, 2014. This means you need to make sure you get the right stamps for your invites.
2. Even the price of a postcard stamp is going up.
3. Make sure you are aware of odd shaped invitations and RSVP cards. They are not priced the same.
4. We all LOVE the adorable wedding, heart, and kiss stamps. But, if you buy them before the price increase (or already have them) and intend on using them after January 26th, you will need to add extra postage. Save yourself some money and get some forever stamps!
Here is a breakdown of the cost impact to you:
If you have 150 people you are inviting, this means you are probably going to send out around 80 invitations (some will be couples but some may be singles).
80 invitations at the current rate of .46 is $36.80
80 RSVP cards (if using a postcard) current rate .33 is $26.40
80 Thank You cards at the current rate is $36.80
Total spent on postage is $100.00 (keep in mind this is a basic invitation size/weight and postcard RSVP card)
80 invitations at the new rate of .49 is $39.20
80 RSVP cards (if using a postcard) new rate .34 is $27.20
80 Thank You cards at the new rate is $39.20
Total spent on postage at the new rate beginning on Sunday the 26th is $105.60
Keep in mind this does not include postage for your rehearsal dinner invites or Thank You cards for bridal shower gifts. So, while it may seem like a small amount of money, it will begin to add up. And $10 here and $10 there makes a huge difference.
So you may be asking "what now?" Well head on down to your local store or post office and buy some forever stamps. You pay the current rate and can save some money.
Thanks for reading and we hope you found this helpful.
Lisa Marie
Eventsbylisamarie.com
503-830-7779
PS when writing your text on your invitations make sure to spell out the date properly. It is two thousand fourteen. It would not be two thousand and fourteen. :)
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Cyber Week Specials Wednesday/Thursday!
Happy Thursday!
This week we are running cyber week specials that are available all the way thru till Friday December 7th. Just call to schedule your complimentary consultation with us, let us know which special you are interested in then when we write up your contract we will note the special on it. :) It is as easy as that and you get special deals just for booking!
If you missed the first two specials you can see them here!
Events by Lisa Marie Specials
Wednesday - Book the White Diamond Package by December 7th & get 2 additional hours to use however you would like. Either 1 additional consultation, 2 extra hours on your wedding day or use them to have us manage your rehearsal dinner! You pick how they get used. But must be booked by December 7th! (and as an added bonus you get a $25 Gift Certificate to Henry's Tavern!)
Thursday - Book the Yellow Diamond Special By Friday December 7th & Receive a certificate for an additional 3 hours of consultation help towards managing the Rehearsal Dinner, Day after Brunch or Bridal Shower. Call to schedule your complimentary consultations soon so that you can book and take advantage of this offer by December 7th! (and as an added bonus you get a $25 Gift Certificate to Henry's Tavern!)
Bridal Bootcamp
All Week - We are still running the 30% off the Advocare 24 Day Challenge. This is an amazing program that will cleanse/detox your system, jump start your weight loss, help you feel less sluggish, allow your body to absorb the good nutrients and vitamins your body needs. The first 10 days allows you to remove all the "bad" things our system is holding onto and the second 14 days allows your system to start absorbing the good. So why not order now and start right away or save it to start right after Christmas. Either way a 30% savings is a great deal!
Don't forget we also offer gift certificates. So if you know someone who would like a wedding planner but is not sure if it fits into their budget, get them a gift certificate towards any package! Great for Christmas gifts. :)
This week we are running cyber week specials that are available all the way thru till Friday December 7th. Just call to schedule your complimentary consultation with us, let us know which special you are interested in then when we write up your contract we will note the special on it. :) It is as easy as that and you get special deals just for booking!
If you missed the first two specials you can see them here!
Events by Lisa Marie Specials
Wednesday - Book the White Diamond Package by December 7th & get 2 additional hours to use however you would like. Either 1 additional consultation, 2 extra hours on your wedding day or use them to have us manage your rehearsal dinner! You pick how they get used. But must be booked by December 7th! (and as an added bonus you get a $25 Gift Certificate to Henry's Tavern!)
Thursday - Book the Yellow Diamond Special By Friday December 7th & Receive a certificate for an additional 3 hours of consultation help towards managing the Rehearsal Dinner, Day after Brunch or Bridal Shower. Call to schedule your complimentary consultations soon so that you can book and take advantage of this offer by December 7th! (and as an added bonus you get a $25 Gift Certificate to Henry's Tavern!)
Bridal Bootcamp
All Week - We are still running the 30% off the Advocare 24 Day Challenge. This is an amazing program that will cleanse/detox your system, jump start your weight loss, help you feel less sluggish, allow your body to absorb the good nutrients and vitamins your body needs. The first 10 days allows you to remove all the "bad" things our system is holding onto and the second 14 days allows your system to start absorbing the good. So why not order now and start right away or save it to start right after Christmas. Either way a 30% savings is a great deal!
Don't forget we also offer gift certificates. So if you know someone who would like a wedding planner but is not sure if it fits into their budget, get them a gift certificate towards any package! Great for Christmas gifts. :)
Happy Cyber Week from all of us at Events by Lisa Marie
www.eventsbylisamarie.com
503-830-7779
info@eventsbylisamarie.com
Taking you from vision to reality!
Thursday, June 30, 2011
What oh What to Register for (and how)??
You are engaged, planning a wedding, planning a life together. You have made it thru many steps in the planning process and now it's time to register for wedding gifts. This can be both fun and stressful and we hope that the below information will help guide you thru the process with ease.
1. Prior to visiting stores sit down and talk about the items you NEED not just the ones you WANT. Once you have your list you can attack all the registries in one day, yes grooms you should do this with your bride.
2. Decide what type of stores you want to register at and it's okay to have a few registries, but keep in mind some people will buy you a gift that is not on your registries. That's okay, just keep in mind they have purchased the gift because it reminds them of you or they think it is something you will enjoy.
3. It's ok to register at a high dollar store and an everyday store just make sure they are available to your guests. Don't register at a store where your guests can only buy online as many want to go and see in person what you have registered for. However, do make sure you have a range of items on your registries. Do not register for only expensive things.
4. Research. Check with your friends, ask what products they got and loved and what did they register for and NEVER use. Read the reviews on items you like, if lots of people have problems with them maybe it's not the product/brand you want. You don't have to do this for everything, but the larger high dollar items you will. People will spend big money on those items, why replace them a year later because it doesn't work?
5. Do Not Register for EVERYTHING on the must have list the stores will give you. Most of those you don't need, have never heard of or won't use. In fact don't even look at the list till after your intitial registration visit.
6. DO register for at least 12 place setting in everyday and fine china, silverware and glassware. At some point you will have a family gathering at your house and will need at least 12. Most china patterns get discontinued after a few years and you may not be able to find it.
7. Print copies so you can review your registries. Make sure you haven't registered for the same thing at 2 or more locations. You will get multiple items and will need to return them. This is when you can compare your want/need list, the must have list and your registries. But don't overdo it.
8. Make sure you understand the registry completion program. Some give you 10% off after your wedding on everything LEFT on your registry you buy. Some give you points based on what your guest buy. Make sure you read thru and get the most out of your completion. Also check for free items. Some china sets go on sale and when you buy certain pieces you get another piece free or discounted.
Below are links to some of our favorite places to register.
Amazing Registry
Bed, Bath and Beyond
Crate and Barrel
Macy's
Marriott Registry
Our Wishing Well
Target
Remember this is a fun part of the process and Yes it is OK to ask for Gift Cards and to ask an associate to help. :) Check back later for another post about registries including what to do with those cards, when to open gifts and for the guests when and what to send.
1. Prior to visiting stores sit down and talk about the items you NEED not just the ones you WANT. Once you have your list you can attack all the registries in one day, yes grooms you should do this with your bride.
2. Decide what type of stores you want to register at and it's okay to have a few registries, but keep in mind some people will buy you a gift that is not on your registries. That's okay, just keep in mind they have purchased the gift because it reminds them of you or they think it is something you will enjoy.
3. It's ok to register at a high dollar store and an everyday store just make sure they are available to your guests. Don't register at a store where your guests can only buy online as many want to go and see in person what you have registered for. However, do make sure you have a range of items on your registries. Do not register for only expensive things.
4. Research. Check with your friends, ask what products they got and loved and what did they register for and NEVER use. Read the reviews on items you like, if lots of people have problems with them maybe it's not the product/brand you want. You don't have to do this for everything, but the larger high dollar items you will. People will spend big money on those items, why replace them a year later because it doesn't work?
5. Do Not Register for EVERYTHING on the must have list the stores will give you. Most of those you don't need, have never heard of or won't use. In fact don't even look at the list till after your intitial registration visit.
6. DO register for at least 12 place setting in everyday and fine china, silverware and glassware. At some point you will have a family gathering at your house and will need at least 12. Most china patterns get discontinued after a few years and you may not be able to find it.
7. Print copies so you can review your registries. Make sure you haven't registered for the same thing at 2 or more locations. You will get multiple items and will need to return them. This is when you can compare your want/need list, the must have list and your registries. But don't overdo it.
8. Make sure you understand the registry completion program. Some give you 10% off after your wedding on everything LEFT on your registry you buy. Some give you points based on what your guest buy. Make sure you read thru and get the most out of your completion. Also check for free items. Some china sets go on sale and when you buy certain pieces you get another piece free or discounted.
Below are links to some of our favorite places to register.
Amazing Registry
Bed, Bath and Beyond
Crate and Barrel
Macy's
Marriott Registry
Our Wishing Well
Target
Remember this is a fun part of the process and Yes it is OK to ask for Gift Cards and to ask an associate to help. :) Check back later for another post about registries including what to do with those cards, when to open gifts and for the guests when and what to send.
For additional questions call or email.
Lisa Marie
Events by Lisa Marie
503-830-7779
Monday, June 27, 2011
Travel in Style
So you have survived the planning process, or at least you are close to being done with it. You are finalizing those little details and you want to really leave your wedding with a grand exit. You may be wondering how to do that. Well why not leave in one of the nicest cars in town?
For the same price you will pay to rent a limo you could leave in Oregon's ONLY 1947 Rolls Royce. Maybe you are having your wedding in one location and reception in another, why not ride in style with your new Husband (or Wife) for some quiet time just the two of you.
And better yet, you can even book them online. Just go to the website and click on Contact us for a Quote. Its just that easy. This car will truly make your wedding a memorable event.
www.BestCarInTown.com
503-936-8103
A ride for just you two, a grand exit from the wedding or reception, maybe even a special way to arrive at your wedding. With many happy couples this car will not disappoint you.
Don't Delay Call for your Complimentary Consultation Today
Lisa Marie
Events by Lisa Marie
www.EventsByLisaMarie.com
info@eventsbylisamarie.com
503-830-7779
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